I know that it has been a very, very long time since anything has been posted on this blog. To be honest I’m not sure where to start or how to begin what I’m about to say.
Kevin and I have been separated for over 2 years. I have given him chances and more chances. I gave him an ultimatum with a list like counseling, getting a job and saving up money so we can be together. I extended the deadline. I needed signs that Kevin loved me and wanted to repair our marriage. Instead he pulled away, not talking to me for about 2 months while he read books related to his thesis. He called me a distraction. Grrrr.
Kevin made so many bad choices in our marriage. He made quite a few bad choices since we have been separated. Plus there were so many broken promises… To be honest Kevin put me in an extremely tough spot. I prayed. I thought. I talked to my counselor. I talked to my priest. I listened, talked and prayed some more til I came to a very sad conclusion.
Our marriage cannot be saved. I have filed for divorce and will start the annulment process after our divorce is final.